568 Consulting

I have been wondering why people around me starts to talk about their problems or ideas and consult me. I'm not exaggerating and please don't take it wrong, because I don't mean any kinds of self-praise. I'm just wondering because I never ask them to talk about them. Very often, when I specially need someone's advice or just need to be heard and understood,  a person I am talking with seems to suddenly get a feeling like talking about themselves. Very strange, but in fact, it's honorable at all cost.